We were looking forward to camping with our two young children in (quoting from the site description) a 'peaceful pop up spot' in 'secluded woodland '. We were shown to a pitch near the toilets when we arrived at 7pm by the female owner and pitched our tent once the broken glass had been removed.
The on-site bar played everyone music until 1130pm. Needless to say none of us got a wink of sleep until well after this. We were very disappointed and surprised as this didn't seem like the 'peaceful' spot we had expected. The site description makes a point of saying the 'silent generator ' (it certainly not silent!) goes off at 10pm. Not quite sure why this is relevant if the festival volume music plays until 1130!
The next night the music started up again at 7pm. My wife, speaking to the manager for an unrelated matter, asked him what time we might expect the music to finish tonight. She was told between 1130-12pm. My wife, politely, expressed her disappointment as we were expecting a peaceful site as per their own description. At this point he became aggressive, shouting at my wife saying 'you've seen our website, you know what we're about, don't come to my bar complaining about the music'.
My wife returned to our tent upset. 5 mins later the owner came to our tent asking to speak to me 'about your missus!'. Then, in full view and hearing of my wife and young kids, started shouting and swearing at me, saying the way my wife had spoken to him was 'unacceptable'. He clearly could not handle being asked a polite question by a 5'7, 37 year old, mother of two, business professional.
I tried to have a reasonable discussion but this was never his intention. By now be had clearly decided that the only way to sort this out was to have a fight, in full view of my two terrified kids. I was warned 'no one gets the better of me on my own land '. I genuinely couldn't believe what was happening so I walked away to try diffuse the situation to which he shouted 'don't turn your back on me pal' and 'no one walks away from me and gets away with it'. He was literally squaring upto me wanting to fight. We did absolutely nothing to warrant such a reaction.
Luckily is teenage daughter then appeared and, with the resigned look of a child who had seen this all before, tried to calm her dad down and remove him from situation, to stop him physically assaulting a paying customer. Before the male stormed off he made it clear we had to pack up and leave. My kids were absolutely distraught and very distressed. We packed up and drove our crying children home through the night.
I reached out to the owners via email and via pitchup and have had no response for over 3 weeks. I still am absolutely amazed about what took place.
I'm unsure if the male had anger management issues, is a misogynist or is just a nasty, aggressive character on a daily basis. My kids are now scared to go camping in case there is another 'nasty man'.
I'm sure the owner will deny all knowledge and offer a suitably salty reply to this review but I can honestly say this is all the absolute truth.
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